Borderline Personality Disorder; Support for families and relationship partners

http://www.bpdfamily.com/articles/nk_a101.htm

CAUTION: Information intended for men, and men alone. Not for the ladies.

Oh, I’ve SO been here… most girls are normal humans and should be treated as such, but for these borderline nut-jobs, I offer these two words of advice: be mean. Never be nice unless you want her to break up with you. If you want her to worship you, be mean to her. I’m not talking about domestic violence mean, I’m talking about acting like you couldn’t care less about her and as soon as she becomes a liability, you’ll cut her loose. Tell her that. Say those exact words. Say “I don’t love you and I will never love you”. She’ll do anything for you after that. I’m not even kidding. Also this is the kind of girl you play fucked up mind games with. Put some panties in the glove box and tell her to hand you something from it so she sees them. Stuff like that. If “mean” isn’t in your nature and you got to be nice sometimes, you can be, but there needs to be a mean twist on everything you do. For instance, you can buy her flowers once every few months, but you better tell her up front that they were on sale or you found them in the trash or something. If you’re going to take her out to eat at a nice restaurant don’t tell her about it and have her meet you at your house. She’ll show up wearing regular clothes and you’ll be dressed to the nines. She’ll love you for the date and her self esteem will be destroyed for the evening, because she’ll feel like a scumbag. Better yet insist on taking her to some cheap-o store to buy her something more suitable to wear. You will dominate her for life.
But if you’re too nice… forget about it pal, you’ll be screwed and there’ll be no turning back.

CAUTION: Information intended for men, and men alone. Not for the ladies.

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